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can We know a definition of love?

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Well can we know a definition of love?  So let's find out. Before that, let me inform you that the definition that you have asked me to know is completely my personal opinion.  See love means to me first of all beautiful feelings. Love means an endless treasure of sweet memories to me. And love means freedom to me. Why are you thinking about freedom? This answer will be revealed in the text inside.  What is the basis of love?  The foundation of love is self-love. You know, a person can love another person only when that person loves himself/herself. Because when a person loves wonself, he/she can gain the power to love another soul, another human being. A little while ago in my intro I said that love means freedom to me. There is a deep connection between these two things: self-love and liberation. How exactly is this connection? Suppose you love someone. You have dreamed about him a lot. You have painted many colorful dreams about him in the ...

Life is a moving train

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Can we compare our lives to a moving train !?  I have to go to the train station every morning because of the daily commute.  I am waiting to reach my destination.  I wait for the train.  Then I noticed countless passengers like me waiting.  Everyone is struggling to reach their destination.  In fact, it is a kind of struggle.  Because there is a rush here, you have to test like patience, there is a matter of pushing someone back and moving forward.  Life is a moving train.  I did not say wrong.  You see, every day we get on the train.  How many of you people get on the train.  Then that gets off at the designated station like that.  Our life is just like this.  How many people and how many memories in our lives.  Everything is fleeting.  Like a train.  When the time comes, whoever falls on the platform.  Every human being wandering in our lives lands on the right platform at just the r...

Intelligence when providing the balance of emotions

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Suppose in the morning, before going to the office you are having tea and your little girl throws the cup of tea on your clothes while talking.  Perhaps, you will get angry, scold your daughter, maybe even get angry with your husband or wife for not noticing the girl, get dressed again and be late, which is why you may forget to take some of your urgent papers to the office in anger.  You go, you are in a hurry while driving, you get a case from the police due to high speed, etc.  Then, after a bad day, he returned home at the end of the day and saw that his face was black and that your husband or wife was silent. Again, the same thing could have happened differently.  The fall of tea on the clothes can not be reversed.  But the rest of the bad events of the day might not have happened, only if the emotion of that moment could have been controlled, if the girl could have thought, because she did not do it on purpose.  All you have to do is s...

I'm not dead - forced me to die

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I am Parmita.  I am a normal person like you.  I am a very dreamy person.  It feels very good to dream.  I cherish my dreams very much.  My dream is to be a doctor.  You may not know that I got a chance to study in a good medical college.  No more days.  I will go to a new college.  The books have been bought.  I am the darling child of my parents.  He kept me very close.  But.  What happened suddenly today!  Why do they keep me so close !?  Until yesterday, I used to wander outside with joy in my mind.  I would go out to talk and hang out with friends in the neighborhood.  What happened suddenly!  Why is everyone coming to see me !?  And why am I lying in bed like that !?  Why is everyone saying what will be my future !?  Who ended my life !?  What happened to me !?  Why am I asking so many questions like crazy !? Why is there so much pain in the lower part ...

Feminism does not mean anti-masculinity!

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                                   photo "Feminism" is one of the most talked about and critically acclaimed terms of this period.  I hope my readers have heard this word somewhere before.  Feminism is a philosophy that originated in the twentieth century.  This philosophy believes in the equality and freedom of women as men.  Feminism emphasizes the rationale for achieving women's equality in society, especially for equal rights for men.  Feminism claims: Women are more capable than men on the one hand and no less than men in terms of social contribution. I will express my personal opinion on some special issues in this case.  I am very sad, and very surprised to see the current feminist movements.  Well, do you ever think that the current feminist movements are quite chaotic somewhere?  Somewhere with the predominance of aggression!  The ...

জীবনযুদ্ব আমার বয়স বাড়িয়ে দিল

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photo আপনারা শুনতে পাচ্ছেন ভয়ানক ও অসহ্যকর সেই শব্দগুলো ? পাঠক আপনারা কি কিছুই শুনতে পাচ্ছেন না ! আমার খুব ভয় করে ঐ শব্দগুলো । দানবীয় শব্দগুলো আমার মায়ের কোলে শুয়ে থাকা আমার  ছোট্ট  বোন নাসিফার ঘুমকে ভাঙ্গিয়ে দেয়। সে ছোট্ট শিশুটি বোঝে না কেন তার ঘুমে ব্যাঘাত ঘটল ! দূরে ও কাছে যেকোনো মুহূর্তে সেই শব্দগুলো আমরা শুনতে পাই। জানেন আপনারা ওগুলো কিসের শব্দ ! ওগুলো বড় আকারের বন্দুকের শব্দ। আমি নাম জানি না বন্দুকগুলোর। কি নাম ওগুলোর !? বাড়ির বাইরে চারিদিকে কিছু লোক অদ্ভুদ সব পোশাক পরিধান করে সেই বন্দুকগুলো নিয়ে ঘোরে। আমি তাদের কোনো দিন প্রশ্ন করিনি তারা কারা ? কেন করব ! কেন বলুন তো ? যারা আমার  ছোট্ট বোনটির সুন্দর ঘুমের মুহূর্তগুলোকে  নাশ করে  তাদের আমি প্রশ্ন করব কোন দুঃখে ! আমি আর পারি না দিন দিন এই ছোট্ট ঘরটার মধ্যে লুকিয়ে থাকতে । আমি ফিরতে চায় মাঠে । যেতে চাই বন্ধু জাহাঙ্গীর এর বাড়িতে। আমি ক্লান্ত এই লুকোচুরি খেলায়। আমি শুধু ভালোবাসি বন্ধুদের সাথেই লুকোচুরি খেলতে। এই বন্দুককারী অসভ্যগুলোর সাথে লুকোচুরি খেলতে গিয়ে আমাকে ক্লান্ত। মাকে যখন জিজ্ঞাসা করি ওরা...

Today I can no longer

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                                  image Today is not my time To hate someone Today is not my time Pushing someone away Today is not my time To hurt someone unnecessarily I can't anymore To prove one's self-interest by crushing others I can't anymore To create an atmosphere of violence I am very incapable today To take away a little food to curb the hunger of others I can't do it today To injure the body of another Today I am helpless I tolerate the happiness of others, I can't give any sorrow Oh my God! What happened to me today! Am I crazy?  But I understand! This oil bud of the lamp of life is fleeting momentarily. If all the oil is wasted for hate, what is left for me Shall I ruin everything for hate !?